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Giving Meaning to Pair-formance Outside the Box

When it comes to categorizing Delphine within societal norms, she might be labeled as a “Professional in Support and Guidance“, a person who continually seeks to learn and weave invisible connections between often incomprehensible worlds.

However, this classification would confine her to a mere “box”, while she truly embodies the essence of the multifaceted Human being.

Delphine shows us that it is possible to dance with Life while staying true to our paradoxical Self and illuminating our dualities in both professional and personal spheres.

Speaking of “box”,
where does the name of her firm
“Performance Outside the Box” come from?

“Outside the Box” refers to her training and experience in the United States, where she spent over ten years successfully optimizing international businesses. She realized the importance of letting go of Mental constraints to think outside the box.

Besides bringing a new dimension to thinking, Delphine emphasizes the importance of acting in accordance with our body sensations.
Starting her career by unleashing and highlighting the potentials of businesses, and then devoting herself to individuals also, she chose the word “performance” in reference to dance.
As a dancer, traveler, and explorer, Delphine loves discovering how Humans can illuminate their resources to co-create with Life.

Guided by her intuition and psychic abilities, Delphine daily uses and develops her tools to guide others.
Through her clairaudience, she once heard on a bus in Monaco that “performance” could also be interpreted as “pair-formance,” a (trans)formation in pairs. This revelation confirmed her firm’s name choice, founded in France in 2014.

Delphine
Her Difference, Her Reference

Let’s dive into the captivating narrative of Delphine, whose journey transcends geographical borders and conventional limits.

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Inspiring and energizing, unconventional and surprising, Delphine inspires us to think and act “outside the box”, off the beaten path.

Her uniquely approach leads us to discover aspects of ourselves we didn’t know existed.

YES! Her innovative vision challenges cultural, philosophical, and spiritual concepts, as we know them.

For me, there’s no real “personal development” or “self-work” to become someone else because we don’t fundamentally change. We can only evolve, grow. It’s Life itself that flows through us, like a path of constant transformation.

So, I prefer to talk about “growth” of being, as I lead people to discover dormant parts of themselves that serve them in rewriting the stories they tell themselves in their mind.

To embrace the ever-changing game of life, I use the Body extensively, the vessel of the Soul where the Heart is at its center. It holds the key!

That’s why everything comes from within, our intuition, our desire to live.

I often say: “your inner voice is your way” 😊

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I learned the term “slasher” in France, in the world of High Potentials (HP) because we dislike routine, and we need to fulfill ourselves in different ways.

Personally, titles don’t matter much to me, although society needs them for reference. So, I use the term “Coach” meaning “to guide” and thus encompass all the labels you mentioned, despite its limiting definition.

As Socrate mentioned “I do not claim to teach anyone anything. I can only invite reflection”.

To be honest, my father calls me “the Philosopher” when he sees the depth of my thinking. So you see, everyone has their label 😊

In reality, those who come to me are ready to question themselves. They participate actively and consciously in their own change. Or they’ve tried many things and haven’t seen tangible change in their life.

Being trained in the USA, I’m driven to “Make a Difference,” but there’s no guarantee of results. Everything is just as it is.

And to answer your question, yes, being able to spot potential in others allows me to remove what blocks their light from shining. That’s why I deeply explore the root of the blockages and then reprogram the Subconscious to be open and receptive to the unpredictable flow of Life.

It’s important to understand that I don’t offer a common teaching with a set method for everyone. Instead, I provide personalized practical keys to try out to reclaim your life.

In Indigenous shamanic culture, “medicine” means “empowerment.” Thus, a medicine woman helps others reclaim their power and freedom in entirety (body, soul, spirit), bridging the visible and invisible.

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Thank you for that question. Indeed, my approach is holistic and pragmatic.
I like to get practical, so without imposing, I suggest testing practical keys I identify in each person.

In brief, I coach individuals and businesses to become aware of what’s happening within them so they can grow in their purpose.

I encourage them to break free from conditioning to create a meaningful life.

It’s why I transmit an inner stripping process that highlights their multiple potentials and liberates them from any burdens hindering their growth.

It’s about unlearning norms, the need for validation, and the fear of displeasing.
It’s rediscovering our authentic way of interacting with the world around us.

We (re)learn to navigate both our professional and personal lives, in harmony with Reality, to detach ourselves from outcomes, follow Life’s flow with its ups and downs, and ultimately accept that we actively co-create with a Life that is constantly changing.

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Well, with me, it’s easy—I don’t really know how I do it 😊
Like a free electron, I go with what I feel and my connection to the Living, bridging the visible and invisible worlds.

I see clearly that I’m connected to something bigger than myself to serve peacefully and with love, without making promises or seeking dominance.

But to stay true, I only transmit what I’ve learned through my own experiences.

Often, it’s my clients who specify the discipline I apply. But since I use multidisciplinary methods throughout the process I lead, it’s more accurate to describe it as holistic support.

To be honest, in over 10 years of running my business, only one person has ever asked about my qualifications. Most people who come and see me want a change in their life, and they quickly recognize that their own involvement is key.

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I’d rather say it’s almost instinctive for me to spot potential in others. Plus, I practice this ability daily, so it’s become almost instantaneous. So yes, with me, we don’t sit around waiting for results with our fingers crossed😊

That being said, as I often tell my clients, every advantage also has its downside.
It all depends on the perspective you take.
For example, in the beginning, I was often very frustrated seeing enormous potential in a person or a group and realize that this potential was never being tapped into.

I really believed in it, but the transformation never happened because they chose not to step out of their comfort zone. It’s therefore essential to respect everyone’s free will and know our boundaries. It’s something we learn over time 😊.

Being able to identify untapped potential in individuals and companies is a major asset for guiding them to recognize their strengths, weaknesses, and goals.

This encourages them to more easily initiate their Human and organizational transformation towards growth.

Whether it’s on an individual or collective level, my assistance helps them (re)discover their resources and achieve their projects.

On the contrary, I can also easily analyze potential workplace conflicts and co-develop action plans towards team synergy.

The goal is the same: to improve quality of Life.

What’s quite surprising is when people come to me with their confessions about mistakes, they’re not proud of.

Indeed, even in companies, people feel more comfortable opening up to someone who listens and remains impartial.

They share their errors with me confidentially, expecting moral judgments to set them straight. But instead, I prefer to explain why they acted the way they did, so they can do things differently and (re)build genuine and constructive relationships.

This enables them to view their situation from a new perspective and think “outside the box.”

And it’s clear that my abundant energy rubs off on them, giving them the motivation to change direction. This undoubtedly strengthens their confidence and determination in difficult times, boosting them to move forward with courage. It’s really rewarding, “I love my job” 😊!

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Whether it’s for individuals in their professional and personal lives, or for businesses and groups, I offer my services in both French and English.

I aim to assist as many people as possible who feel the call for it. That’s why I have clients from all around the globe.

My guidance in asking the right questions and reclaiming power of decision-making and action manifests in several ways: remote consultation sessions, training programs, long-term coaching, both online and in-person, in France and abroad.

I enjoy the diversity in my interventions, although I prefer meeting people face to face. That’s why I travel extensively. I love engaging in intercultural relationships to learn more about myself and others.

Being on the ground has its advantages too; it allows me to use all my senses, which empowers me to synthesize information quickly and find solutions.

This way, I always coach entrepreneurs, managers, and business leaders directly within their operations.

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Yes, it’s true 😊 When I was managing multiple profit center managers internationally, training cross-cultural teams in several countries simultaneously, my unconventional management style often involved celebrating team mistakes by popping a bottle of champagne.

It wasn’t strategic at first, just spontaneous as usual.

Over time, I came to understand that taking necessary risks for ambitious projects and making mistakes to understand the situation and find a better way for the company were both important lessons.

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I see myself as someone who comes from Mother Nature like everyone else 😊

I simply bring a new mindset, a new way to see Life, so that we have the choice to vibrate our life.

Some may say I’m quite “spiritual” compared to those who are too “materialistic” in the man-made materialistic system.

Yes, indeed, from that perspective, I connect more with my inner life than the external.
It’s all about balance, in my point of view.

Traveling into the invisible realm through my extrasensory perceptions can be scary, as I was the first time it happened to me.

The unknown always scares us because we haven’t learned about it…

But ultimately, self-education also involves self-knowledge.
So, diving deep within ourselves to meet our true Self and identify our inner aspects is the gateway to the invisible world.

We can’t fully understand our Life and be autonomous if we ignore our inner Life.

That’s why I facilitate this access with a lot of humor because I keep within me that curious, childlike gaze of an explorer who constantly questions 😊.

Embodying a grounded, living spirituality that is close to Nature, where the body, soul, and spirit are reconciled, shows another way of being in the world.

It can also inspire people to do the same if they feel called to open up new possibilities for themselves.

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Yes, indeed. You know the expression “you’re too…”. Well, that’s exactly me.

Over time, these absolute generalizations put us in a painful box, making us feel different and out of place, so it’s best to avoid that.

Especially since we can be in one state of being today and in the opposite state tomorrow, and that should be accepted.

There’s no need to fear showing our uniqueness freely in all its evolving complexity…

For me, my mind does function differently from the norm, and that’s OK.

We talk about giftedness or neuro-atypicality because my sensory system is highly developed with a dominant right-brained functioning in branching connections, linked to the Emotional Intelligence of Consciousness.

So, I’m not wired like most people who have cognitive performances tied to the analytical intelligence of their left brain… But that doesn’t stop me from being a great observer of the smallest details.

So you see, there’s no point in differentiating ourselves; on the contrary, it divides us.

We each have our own way of being, and that’s why I demonstrate the richness of the complementarity of opposites in my Group Coaching and also the synergy of intercultural teams in my Business Coaching 😊.

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It’s a shortcut that’s neither false nor true.

In fact, I reignite each person’s inner flame and provide keys so they can use them daily in their own way and at their own pace to reconnect with their purpose.

Business is just an extension of our being in another form.

I steer professionals to rediscover Mental gymnastics and disconnect their automated brains to link with their creative Consciousness.

With my “outside the box” approach that liberates and disidentifies, I deconstruct obsolete thought and action patterns to implement other ways of functioning that surpass our own cognitive biases that unconsciously hold us back.

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I’m doing my best to transcend our limits that reside in our Ego and to connect more with our Soul and the diversity of the Whole, to manifest our unique expression of creation.

Life/Creation is already organized and cannot be controlled.
However, by embracing our emotions, beliefs, and thoughts, regardless of their color, they can be transformed.

I’ve learned to do this in myself, so I show others how to do it for themselves, including the darker aspects of their being.

If you will, my intervention leads to unveiling their own user manual.
They have a revelation of their being with all its parts.

Indeed, like a mirror, they see me.
They notice that I take responsibility for being who I am in entirety, so people can take example to accept themselves fully, without choosing between light and shadow.

Since we are energy, I often compare us to a battery that needs both its positive and negative poles to function, to be alive. Well, it’s the same for us 😊.

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Wow! I didn’t expect that question


I believe that if Humans are on this earth, it’s because we have a place in this diverse and living Ecosystem.

Life, Nature, Reality, Creation, Universe, God—choose your word…
Humans are an expression of Life, a part of the Whole.

So indeed, when I see businesses without vibrant employees, managers who are like robots, relationships devoid of Life… it drives me to reintroduce vitality. That’s what we call “quality of Life” at work, more specifically 😊.

In my Blog articles, I love making connections between the Body, the Universe, and current events, weaving through geopolitics and the Psyche.

Today, we’re witnessing the collapse of a Western system where the Mind, this ego-driven machine, has been overly emphasized compared to our spiritual essence.

The mind, thought, and technology have been pushed to their extremes, replacing the body, the heart, and our connection with ourselves and with Nature.

This materialistic excess gives all of us the opportunity to contribute to the re(co)gnition of Humanity with harmonious co-creation between our reality and the Living world.

We are truly invited to participate in the emergence of a new paradigm of Consciousness on Earth.

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Well, first of all, let’s acknowledge that all tools can be used with kindness or malice in our world, often divided into two camps.

For example, in recent years, we’ve seen hypnosis used to heal inner wounds, but also to exert global influence and spread fear…

So, when it comes to Artificial Intelligence (A.I), it’s similar.

It replaces many customer service roles in companies, where we were reassured by communicating with a Human to assist us.

At the same time, A.I saves time by getting data faster than if we were to search on the Internet ourselves.

However, it’s essential to know that A.I will never be as intelligent as Humans.

A.I is efficient but can’t be a “Performance outside the box” 😊

Only Humans are inherently endowed with Emotional Intelligence connected to the Consciousness of Living Whole.

Unlike Artificial Intelligence, which excels in quantitative performance by providing various versions of data, it can’t, like Humans, distinguish truth from falsehood in the face of conflicting information.

Truth is the emotion that only humans are inherently endowed with Emotional Intelligence

Plus, A.I can’t decode our Body intelligence.

Since our Body wasn’t created by Humans, A.I can’t comprehend the magical functioning of our Body Intelligence.

That’s why it’s vital today to awaken Humans in Consciousness to embody our true essence:

“Become continually who you are, be the master and sculptor of yourself”, Nietzsche.

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